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Was it...? Or do that then

Reaches back for something you half-remember, usually with genuine doubt: did I ever look up at someone like this, has Jjapagetti always been this good, did I say that? Adding 요 turns it on the listener, as in asking who was particularly tired among the members. It has a second, quite different use in these lines — a take-it-or-leave-it suggestion tacked on at the end: or we could just meet at someone's house, or make the game longer, or tell me a story if you have one.

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