든가

Or you could just... (shrugged suggestion)

Ends a line with a take-it-or-leave-it alternative, often with a hint of irritation: get some ice cream while we walk then, or just come up on stage, then don't celebrate it at all, then pay me that much more. The shrug is the point — you are offering the option without pushing for it, and sometimes that is a complaint in disguise. Adding 요 makes it polite without removing the shrug.

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